Ok, this is just my opinion on weddings. Of course it’s your special, one-in-a-million day. You want everything to be perfect and wonderful. But really… don’t go over the top. A cousin of Dear Monkey’s flew his then gf to NYC to pick out a ring at Tiffany’s and then threw a HUGE bash at a Scottish castle. Result? Lots and lots of debt to pay off and threw a spanner in the works regarding their housing. Marriage isn’t just about that one day.

Just my opinion… pick something great but won’t kill you in terms of time and finances and you’ll be more the happier for it, really.

PE says: Thanks Cheesy Poo! Agree with you on that. It’s hard to keep costs low though! KL prices are really quite shocking!